Stay focused

Even if the path is a little blurry, keep walking. You’ll focus in when you know what you want. Then the picture of your life will be crystal clear. Just don’t give up….

Wild gushing streak of thoughts

Clicks.

Thoughts can go rogue at times but man has the power set things in order sooner or later. Trust yourself and have faith in yourself.

Dealing with problems

“ “Man is a masterpiece of creation if for no other reason than that, all the weight of evidence for determinism notwithstanding, he believes he has free will.”
Georg C. Lichtenberg

This world is a much brighter place when I look at it in a lively manner. The minute I lose my energy, nothing sucks more than breathing which proves that there is no place for quitters here. Every breath brings hopes. Wishes, dreams, aims, passion are on one side; destiny is on the other side. Believing in destiny makes it easy for me to move on. I am well aware that everyone is not alike in any manner and that everyone has different ways of handling their problems but here are some of the ways I think are generally helpful:

• Talking to someone: No one would ever be a loser in life only if people shared their problems with a pack of well-wishers. 4 brains can find out a better solution to any problem than just 1 brain which is already going through a rough time.

• Sorting out: Sorting things out doesn’t mean staying locked up in a room trying to look for the hidden answers. It means to get out of the little fantasy land and face the reality. This is how one can overcome the hidden fears and get the real answers instead of the self made answers.

• Family and friends: The best way to deal with a relationship problem or any other hurdle in life is by giving some time to family either talk to them about this obstacle or just enjoy with them on general issues. Most of the time we ignore family but now when you are upset so why not take this as an opportunity to have fun with family and friends. At the end of the day, they are the only ones who are hurt seeing us in pain and agony.

• Overflowing eyes:This will only make others around you unhappy like I mentioned earlier. Nevertheless, it is healthy to clear your eyes as it can also help you feel relieved but it better be a one session scheme. Cry once and let it all out. Pick up and dust yourself up, get ready to leave it all behind.
  

• Take it easy: Those of us who believe “he was the guy, my true love”, just give things a break then. If he exactly is the man and things are not working correctly now, they might work tomorrow. Drift apart and see if he realizes your worth, then definitely he is the real one if not then he just wasn’t right. Just a tip to remember, there is a right time for everything so is it not better to wait for the right time and the right thing instead of taking matters in our own hands and ending up getting messed?

• Get up: A small fight or a break up does not mean it is the end of the world. I know it feels terrible when you love someone with heart and soul and then things don’t work. Being upset is natural but giving up on everything is just not right. This way you will hurt those who actually care about you like your family, friends and well-wishers. The past will only drag you and drown you in sorrows. Look behind once in a while, cherish the good memories but your past should definitely not stop you from moving on. If it does, then it just wasn’t right for you neither then nor now.

Everything may not be in our control but the things that are in our power can be made colorful. All we need is to stay collected. It’s not a matter of how many time we fall, it’s just a matter of how many times we get up, recollect and re participate. Each time one is reassembled, he becomes much stronger and more immune to agony.