This is an amazing life with some unbelievably amazing people around whom we call our family and friends. They are the only ones that matter and only they will be happy for every good thing that we do. They have no behavior obligations and thinking is not constricted to a box instead they give us the courage and boost to think out of it. Some people make it just so complicated by expecting a certain kind of behavior from us. Why has everyone restricted us in a shell of a particular manner? Honestly, I think that irregardless of others’ expectations, even we in person have bound ourselves in our own little box of mannerism. They wouldn’t expect anything from us that we don’t like if the actually cared. They would accept us however we were, only if they did care for us sincerely.
It is so much in the air to try and please every single person we come across. However, not everybody will like us no matter how nice we become. There are always going to be people around who will judge us, envy us or even criticize us if they get a chance, so why limit ourselves for such people? Its just us that we are restricting ourselves by even caring about them. Why not be ourselves and live the life that we actually want? For instance, we work out to stay in shape so that people don’t call us fat. I mean why worry about people who go on our looks and want us to quit eating our favorite food only because they prefer us being slim. Let us live a day doing what feels right to us. If we want to eat, then we will eat no matter who wants us to lose weight.
It’s the inner beauty that matters and beauty is found in the eyes of the beholder. Let us live a day with natural beauty and not apply any make up today. We are all beautiful and nobody has a right to say anything because if they are not beautiful enough to see our beauty, so let’s not try making them seem beautiful. No matter what we do, others will always find a point to taunt us. Hence, the best solution to save us from the trouble of getting hurt is by being ourselves! No matter how fake the world seems, if you are real, you will always find a person that is as real as you and that will be the person who will understand who you truly are. We are all like birds that need to fly freely. Living in a cage of perfect codes of life will only ruin our true self.
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